Nataly May
Welcome to Nataly Sexology.
I am a psychologist-sexologist specializing in sexuality, fetishes, BDSM, and female-led dynamics.Since 2020, I have worked with individuals and couples who seek to understand themselves more deeply, communicate their desires more honestly, and build intimate lives aligned with who they truly are.Whether you are curious, experienced, or simply looking for a space free from shame and judgment, you are welcome here.Online • In Budapest • English & Russian
About Me
My journey began during COVID, when I started studying psychology and, at the same time, discovered an entire hidden world of fetishes and BDSM. I found out that there are special websites where people anonymously share their fantasies, fetishes, and desires—things they would like to do, things they would like to experience, or things they wish someone would do with them.Some people act on these desires. Some never do anything and keep them purely as fantasies. But what struck me the most was something else.Most of these people have partners. Many of them are married. Many of them have close friends, children, careers, and seemingly normal lives. And yet, despite sharing a home and sometimes even a bed with another person, they are often too afraid to share these desires with the people closest to them.The most common story I heard was not that they didn't love their partner. It was that they didn't feel safe enough to be fully honest about who they were sexually.So they would say, "The sex is okay." Or, "The sex is boring." Or, "We don't have sex anymore." Or, "I know my partner would never understand." And because these desires didn't disappear simply because society told them they shouldn't exist, people would suppress them, hide them, or seek understanding elsewhere.And this is one of the biggest discoveries I've made.Desire doesn't disappear because we ignore it. It doesn't disappear because we judge it. It doesn't disappear because we're ashamed of it. It simply goes underground and waits.Over the years, I have heard thousands of stories, read countless confessions, and spoken with people from very different backgrounds. At some point, it even became overwhelming. It felt as if every person wanted to tell me the secret part of themselves they had never shared with anyone else. Sometimes I had to say, "Please don't tell me any more today," because I carried all these stories in my memory, and they stayed with me.But they also taught me something important.Most people are not immoral or perverted — they simply want to be accepted, understood, and loved without having to hide parts of themselves.And this is why I created Nataly Sexology.This is the place where I want to share my observations, my experiences, my conclusions, and my advice for singles and couples about sexuality, intimacy, communication, and desire. I want to bring academic curiosity and real human experience together and have conversations that many people are too afraid to have elsewhere.If you find these reflections useful and would like to work with me directly, I offer one-on-one consultations online and offline in Budapest. I also work with couples and am available for workshops and group trainings.My WhatsApp number is +36205131553 and I would love to hear from you.Please ask questions, share your thoughts, and suggest topics you would like me to discuss.I truly believe that understanding our sexuality is not only about sex — it is about understanding ourselves.And perhaps the more honestly we can talk about desire, the less lonely we all become.Welcome to Nataly Sexology.